Can you provide the exact information that you pasted into the wizard? It's best to paste it into notepad, save as a .txt file and then zip it. You should be able to attach the .zip file to this report.

is that good enough?
Any help would be very much appreciated.

this error pops up whenever i decide to use a framework and try to install something via composer in bash and i cant debug my php scripts either.

I fixed the wizard, but you already seem to have Xdebug loaded. However, the phpinfo output you gave me says:

Zend Extension Build API220100525,TS,VC9
PHP Extension Build API20100525,TS,VC9

Which very much contradicts:
"Cannot load Xdebug - it was built with configuration API220090626,TS,VC9, whereas running engine is API220090626,NTS,VC9"

So the phpinfo() output you pasted belongs to a totally different PHP version - are you sure you picked the right one?

Closing this out, as no feedback is provided. As this issue concerns installation help, please refer to http://xdebug.org/support.php#list for support too.